By chance, Florida building resident stayed at girlfriend’s on night of disaster

“As human beings right now, we live a fast paced life with technology, we didn’t learn with the pandemic and this has shown me to slow down… this showed me that God is deriving for me because if it was up to me I’d be dead by now,” says Erick De Moura, a survivor who thanks his girlfriend for telling him to stay with her the night he was supposed to be in the partially collapsed building in Surfside near Miami Beach, Florida, U.S., June 26, 2021. REUTERS

SUNRISE, Florida — Champlain Towers South resident Erick de Moura was supposed to be home when the building collapsed, but his girlfriend persuaded him to spend the night at her place some 30 miles away, a circumstance that likely saved his life.

“Only by God. To me this is a miracle,” the 40-year-old Brazil native told Reuters in an interview near the site as rain began to fall on Saturday afternoon.

“It’s a very sad moment. Very confusing,” he said. “It’s very tough to get in touch with my emotions right now.”

On Wednesday, De Moura woke up and went to the gym. He then spent the rest of day working and cooking a traditional Brazilian dish in his 10th floor, two-bedroom apartment for his girlfriend that he took to her Miami Beach house, 30 miles away, that evening for a meal with her and some friends.

After dinner, the group watched the Copa America soccer match between Brazil and Colombia before playing a pickup game outside. De Moura was in his girlfriend’s driveway dripping wet after retrieving their ball from a nearby waterway.

“I said, ‘I’m going to go home because I’m going to the gym tomorrow morning and I have nothing to wear here,'” he said. “I was saying goodbye and she said ‘Why don’t you stay?'”

She persuaded him not to return to Champlain Towers, telling him she would dry his shorts and ordering him to take a shower.

The couple sat and drank a beer and went to sleep right around the time the 130-unit condo building collapsed. De Moura woke hours later to a missed call and a text from a woman who works at the Towers, asking if he was alright.

“I had goose bumps. My heart was pounding. I got dressed and rushed to the building,” he said.

He described the condo building as friendly place where residents came from all corners of the globe to make homes in the United States.

“We saw each other in the elevator. Sometimes helped carry a box,” he said. “These people are dead. For us, on the other side, we are glad to be alive.”

De Moura, who sells medical equipment, said he has thanked his girlfriend and, in a brief light-hearted moment, said he now has to buy her an engagement ring.

“I haven’t cried yet. She is crying all of the time,” he said. “It’s disbelief. It’s very difficult to understand what is happening.”