Japan’s first lady says husband helps with chores

Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe’s wife Akie Abe speaks during an interview with The Associated Press at the prime minister’s official residence in Tokyo Thursday, Sept. 4, 2014. Akie said on Thursday that her husband gives her time for a wide range of activities, from raising organic rice to appearing in a gay pride parade. Despite her husband’s conservative image, she says he does chores when he can. (AP Photo/Eugene Hoshiko)

TOKYO—Japan’s first lady says she has such a busy schedule that sometimes it’s up to the prime minister to do the dishes or take out the garbage.

It’s the kind of flexibility that Akie Abe says is needed for the advancement of women in Japan.

Prime Minister Shinzo Abe is pushing companies and the government to hire and promote more women to allow Japan’s economy to grow and create a society where “women can shine.” He appointed five women to his 18-member Cabinet on Wednesday.

Even though Akie Abe, 52, openly refers to herself as a member of the “opposition in the household” on some issues her husband favors, such as nuclear energy, she told The Associated Press on Thursday that she is a big supporter of his “womenomics” policy of promoting women’s advancement.

In Japan, women are under-represented in senior-level positions in companies, government or universities. They have long been discriminated against in salary and promotion in corporate Japan, and often face obstacles to pursuing their careers due to a lack of help from spouses.

Abe, the daughter of the former president of a leading Japanese confectioner, Morinaga & Co., said it’s important that society allows women enough flexibility to work again after child-rearing or other life events that interrupt their professional careers.

Her husband’s ruling Liberal Democratic Party has conservative views on gender equality, but the first lady is a businesswoman, owns a bar in downtown Tokyo, and supports local artists and craftsmen. She is active in organic farming and grows rice herself in Yamaguchi, her husband’s hometown in western Japan, and campaigns against AIDS and discrimination against minorities.

Next week, she will speak at “The World Assembly for Women in Tokyo,” an international symposium at which she wants to show that Japanese women are also serious about making a society that is friendlier to them.

Such activities, along with her differences with some of her husband’s views, have contributed to her image as a new breed of first lady.

“My husband’s conservative supporters think the wife of a prime minister should keep quiet and support him, so for them my speaking up is unthinkable, but those on the other side of the spectrum say I should speak up even more,” she said in an interview at the prime minister’s official residence.

The first lady said people tend to categorize others, like right and left, west versus east, “or men should be this way and women that way,” creating walls and differences. “I want to tear them down,” she said.

Abe is often out all day, leaving herself little time for housecleaning. The couple has chosen to live mostly in their own home in Tokyo, rather than the official residence, so they don’t have the benefit of government household staff.

She said she sometimes hears her husband mumbling about the house, but that he is never a bossy husband telling her to do things for him.

She said he does chores when he can, including sometimes washing the clothes.

“Sometimes he tries to move things out of the way, but I end up scolding him for putting things in the wrong place. Poor thing,” she said.

Abe said women tend to work harder than men in many parts of the world but are not represented fairly.

“I think a society where women can advance and shine is a global trend, otherwise a country cannot be sustained,” she said.

But that doesn’t mean all women should work like men to be able to “shine,” she said.

 Originally posted: 3:54 pm | Thursday, September 4th, 2014

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